The beauty or the healthy

When one says a successful lady should be healthy and beauty at the same time, do you believe it really can? So is beauty first or health first ? It is like the same question of 'egg first or chicken first' lor.

They say true beauty comes from the inner part, but if you are not pretty, do you people even bother looking you ?? Guys, ask yourself honestly ...............

I am not saying not-so-pretty lady will not have friend, they just take longer time to have friends.

Do you think you look pretty therefore you are healthy ? Or do you feel healthy so you're pretty ? Relate this to shoe-fashion. You wear heels and they make you pretty and sexy but they are not healthy.

I hate wearing heels, seriously, I am more of a health-conscious person. I KNOW, I SOUND HYPOCRITE rite ??

Heels are not only unhealthy, it's also uncomfortable for daily activities and I don't feel good wearing heels. I have to walk all the way from house to bus station and walk around the school everyday leh, what do you expect from me?

I understand that heels give most ladies really really good figures and sexiness (claimed by a lot of my heels' friends as an excuse to wear heels) But to be honest, I never ever have any friends whom I think would look good with heels, i.e. to look natural with that shoe. There are too many biological factors on how heels hurt you that I know many girls are avoiding to read. (because me too!!)

SERIOUSLY, are you trying to FIT IN the shoe or are the shoe trying to FIT IN to you? The price of high heels is short-term beauty and long term health.

P/S: I remember playing Wii-Fit all the time and this artificial trainer will always say: It is important to take good care of your bottom body as it supports your upper body. After all, isn't it so true, except if you walk with upper body lor.

The art of bitch - fight

I had a bitch fight with my sister just now, it started this way:

We had our facial together, and while doing all the masks and i suddenly thought of bitch fight and thought i might put in my blog. So back at home, she somehow started this topic and I told her my opinion. Then she suddenly said 'i might as well put it in my blog'. I replied 'NO.....I thought of it first, you can't' ..... therefore, bitch fight happens lor, damn TULAN.

Typical bitch fight:

• 2 female have to participate
• normally start with topic like jealousy, boyfriend, popularity, copycat, material stuff that she-has-i-also-must-have.
• one of them will says : IF SHE DARE ENOUGH ASK HER COME TO TALK TO FACE-TO-FACE LAR, DON'T EVERYDAY TALK BACK LAR, I DAMN TULAN THIS KIND OF PEOPLE. Whereas she herself is also doing this
  
• so if the other participant is really daring enough and bitch/scold in front of her, she will tell her friend 'YOU KNOW WHAT, THE OTHER DAY I WENT XXX WITH XX, AND THAT BITCH, XX CAME AND BITCH WITH ME, I MEAN, WHATS WRONG WITH HER LER??'
• Normally one of the participant will start to say things waaaaay back and said things like 'LAST TIME SHE DID LIKE THAT TO ME AR, I ALSO CAN TOLERATE LEH, THIS TIME, NO WAY, DAMN TULAN DY LOR !!!' Then the other will keep continue with incident waaaay back to bitch back
• one participant commented on how the other participant has really really ugly and cheap fashion taste.
• With blog now gaining more popularity, it is a good tool to bitch about too. Things like 'do you even have a life ??? what's wrong with you ??' is quite common to see in the blog
  
• Things like 'WALAO EH, EVERYBODY ALSO HATE HER LOR, SHE THOUGHT SHE VERY PREETY MEH, ASK HER TO LOOK AT MIRROR LAR, SHE DAMN VAIN LEH'. This happen to both participant, because they both also damn vain lor
• But, no matter how they compare between themselves (i.e. boyfriend, fashion, popularity, etc) they will never compare their school result lor, why ar ?
• One participant will tell their geng things like ' YOU KNOW AR, THAT DAY I WENT TO XX, I SAW THAT BITCH WEARING XXXX WITH XXXX LEH, WALAO, DAMN UGLY LAR'
• When one participant remain silent and do not want to bitch back, the other participant will tell their friends things like 'SHE DOESN'T DARE TO BITCH BACK ME BECAUSE SHE IS SCARE OF ME/ SHE KNOWS I'M RIGHT MAR'
• Participant always think they are the right one and the others are the wrong one
  
• I also realize bitch fight participants also rolled up the sleeve of uniform lor.......
• If any of their friends tell them not to make things big, the participant will says 'AIYA, XX, I TELL YOU, YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ONE LAR, SHE IS CROSSING THE LINE ALREADY. IF ONE DAY AR, SOMEONE DID this AND this TO YOU LAR, YOU CAN TAHAN ANOT???'
  
• There's this person at the middle one (also don't know she/he is good or bad) tries to send the message to the participants. Although these participants BITCH very loud, but they never dare enough to speak face-to-face, therefore, this middle one should exist in order to continue the drama.................................

P/S: advice to participants: the more you hate someone, the more you are like them

Boring

before

After

My first sucky photoshopped pic, even this kind of work takes me whole boring afternoon to do. If u are pro enough to see all the flaws, esp. the forehead.

Hair !!!

Most people know my hair is virgin, never dye, never perm, never curl (u name it) . I only tried to put some hair styling products with it, and it is like once in a blue moon. Because i always like the original color and style of it, whenever or whoever tells me i should dye my hair so that it looks like who and who (Esp. some bosy hairstylist), it doesn't shakes me at all.

Until i saw these awesomes:


Hello ??? They are cute to maximum lar. My sister and i were someone who are ready to be cheated by creativity (who doesn't, even my mum too). We literally sat at the floor at Watson and discuss which one is cute.

And my favourite obviously comes to..........

This looks so freaking Serena-ish lar.
But of course i did not buy it lar, because i don't think i am ready to do any change yet. And since i am rational enough to know they are the Manga characters and not real person, i will not be like them for even 0.000001%.

Except if next time i might jump into Manga and transform myself like this.

P/S: these characters were designed by Ai Yazawa from Nana ( i guess most people know that).
p/p/s: I can now blingalised my pic, so happy !!! (=.= lame)

the school about sex

i remember i once talked to my mum some of my banana's friend (english educated) were all the way from girl school since kindergarten(like my sisters), and they look like they were so panic when talking to guys and they were literally step back when the guy approach them. I obviously laughed at them and say them SUAKU (behind them).

I myself was in a girl school during my high school and UNISEX primary school. And obviously during high school i did become a bit conscious because i did not had much chance to talk with guy like NORMALLY. Nobody cares about my primary school because who will be conscious about the girl-girl-boy-boy stuff back in primary leh??

So in my uni life there were obviously a lot of guys in my school and that does not matter me until when we sit altogether (girls and boys) and i had to chat with guys like i talked to girls, OPENLY. Sagittarius were claimed to have a good relationship with opposite sex. But i wonder, how 'good' can 'good' be ?

Do every girls just tell the guy they had period pain like how they tell their girl friends? Because i never do that. Or am i the one who are sensitive to this kind of situation.

Or....maybe most girls just feel comfortable when talking about sex in front of guys ?? Because i find it super awkward lor.


Given this hypothetical situation:

Boy : hey, are you still virgin
Girl : owh, yeah, i am, how about you?
Boy : really? i find it very surprising
(and it goes on and on)

This is obviously a super sensitive things to talk with guys.

A best friend of mine,R finds it very surprising that i am from girl school and says she will never send her kids to this kind of school. She said it is weird to do that. But does single sex school has any different from UNISEX school ? She personally find it quite comfortable to talk with guys about all these stuff as long as it is not too disgusting.

I can't deny our school were somehow claimed to be the hiao girls' school. But i know not everyone are hiao in there (well, at least not me). Does that mean if we put this hiao group in the UNISEX school and they will no longer be hiao ? Or put some normal girl from UNISEX school into single sex school and they will then be claimed as hiao ?

laugh

I remembered i watched SATC movie, Carrie and Mr.big is sort of not getting married and Carrie is kind of sad, and she asked her gfs "would i ever laugh again?" and Miranda answered "yes, you will, when it is getting really really really funny". And Carrie did laughed out loud and Charlotte 'accidentally' poo on the pants.

And i shall tell you, this stuff is not really related for what i am going to show you, but in case you are a bit emo and feel like getting a laugh and do not know what to do, you might as well watch it:





p/s# can you believe i've been watching this video for more than 8. (i guess) Because i saw this video when i am in the climax of doing research back in uni. And i actually watched it in library with headphone and many people were walking around, i had to keep my laugh really hard in case i am the weirdo

I should blog about it

The attitude of 'hah, i should blog about it' just get so freaking sickening, isn't it ?

Could someone just simply tell me how do you keep so up-to-date with the blog ar ?

p/s: It's my mum's b'dae, she bought me a one piece dress (weird lor) which i initially recommended it to my sister.....

p/p/s: this is my first photoshopped pic :D See that lil star beside my finger, thanks to my sucky skills

Blog about it

Can someone actually teach me how to write blog, i always have a lot of intention to write blog or having some occasion where i will take pic and tell me sis 'i will blog about it' and end up doing nothing, because :

i am lazy
i don like to share my private life with people
i don like to show you how i look
i am really lazy
i really really don like to know how's my life going
and i really really don like you to know how i look

i really duno, HOW?

Random thoughts ©

welcome to new blogskin ~ THE ONE AND ONLY ONE, created by my sis. Believing that she will start to threat me to do everything with the excuse of 'i created your blogskin' FINE ~~~
ok, now,

Random thoughts ©

• after coming back from Bali, it is not like what i thought, but it is pretty unique in some way. And my cousin and i made a promise, the next time we go (with friends) we will surely wear pretty summer dresses and sandals and posing with all the hiao poses with pretty flowers on hair :D
• Neopets, i am back with lovely neopets, hoping i will keep playing with with daily basis ..... so that my pet is not suffering .. hopefully (u can add me with serenerin)
  
• i had my first caligraphy on red paper and i am pretty excited, so far, i think i did a good job with less than 2 months of learning. Hoping to write a few more and paste it around the house for CNY. As a chinese myself, i am pretty into chinese art compare to western art. I wanted to learn chinese drawing and more, but i am also interested in getting western art as well.....i will talk about these later :D
  
• Few of my close friends in malaysia seems to be stepping on better path and i truly support them in many ways , FIGHTING and KAMBATEH for them
• after watching boys over flower, i am preety hook up with everything about Korea, seriously, its not like i am a korea wanabe or what, i am just liking the things there, like how i will study japanese, etc.
  
• i am pretty sick of going back to perth, for the sake of dealing with alot of stuff in perth, the house amendment, banking issue, etc.... URGGh~~~

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i have THOUGHTS

i am back, its hard to convince myself to keep writing blog. It is just so-not-me lar. Someone could have tell me how did she/he keep writing blog in any circumstances. By the way, back to Malaysia, and then i have thoughts :

- i want to learn sewing, but with limited resources , i couldn't ....
- my sister, is going to face the scariest thing, HER MAJOR AND HER future
- when i see people had really bad language skills ( and u know what i mean) while writing blog and damn (eksi) proud with their own language skills AND still like 'i-am-so-famous', you just feel like leaving message to scold them, i wanted to.... so much, but i believe in KARMA, how now ???
- i wanted to go BALI, but i am worried if it is too pack with tourists